schroedingers cat

If a cat is put in a bunker with some unstable gun powder. There is a 50% chance that the gun powder may explode and there is a 50% chance that it may not. By extension there is a 50% chance that the cat may die and a 50% chance that the cat is alive. However, it is not both. Unless we open the bunker and look we do not know if the cat is alive or dead.

So, lets see how this principle works in real life.

Scenario 1: Cute girl
There was a cute girl in school. If you went up to them and said a "Hi" make up a conversation then there is a 50% chance that it may work out and a 50% chance that it may not work out.

Scenario 2: Work to bring up a start up
A friend of yours works at a startup and invited you to come work for him and contribute. If you went and worked there is a 50% chance it works and a 50% chance it may not.

and so on.......

My point is there is a 50% chance that things may work out and a 50% chance things may not work out. But, if you don't put the cat in the bunker, don't talk to that cute girl, don't take up the offer from your friend etc. you lose the 50% chance of success.

Everything said and done, a soul's purpose on earth is to experience and learn things. Why won't you not do it? Why won't you not put the cat in the bunker?